Soak the cashews and dates in a small bowl with 2 cups of hot water, uncovered, for about 10 minutes to soften (or longer if you're patient!)
Drain the water, and transfer the cashews & dates to a food processor or blender. Add the coconut milk and lemon juice (+ honey, if you're using it), and blend until super smooth. You can add a bit more coconut milk as needed until you reach your preferred consistency.
Transfer to a serving bowl, and enjoy plain or stir in the ingredients for whichever cheesecake flavor you choose. Refrigerate until cool & serve chilled.
Enjoy with sliced apples or pears to dip, spread on some grain-free bread, or eat it with a spoon. :)